Review: Thumbelina

I am always hearing wonderful things about rabbit vibrators. I am also very uncoordinated, making me think that a rabbit vibe is just the right thing for me, since I have a hard time doing two things at once (i.e. using a dildo and clitoral stimulator at the same time). So I was delighted to see that Babeland was offering the Thumbelina for review.

Thumbelina is designed as a g-spot rabbit vibe. However, there is no creepy rabbit. Instead, there is just a g-spot dildo with a bullet attached. The toy is made with hard plastic (the base) and elastomer (a jelly like phthalate free material). Both the dildo and the bullet have soft nubs surrounding the toy.

There are two sliders that control the speed of the bullet and the speed of the circular motion the g-spot dildo makes (the bullet is the only part that vibrates. Holding the toy so that it is facing up and the sliders facing you, the left side controls the dildo, and the right side controls the speed of the bullet. The bullet has only one steady speed that increases as the sliders goes up.

All in all, I was a little disappointed in the Thumbelina. It felt more like a tease than anything else. If the bullet was just a fraction bit faster, I may have been able to get off from it, but it was just slow enough to make me crazy.

I was also not too impressed with the g-spot dildo part. I don’t think it was long enough to hit my g-spot just right, and also turning that part of the toy on felt slightly uncomfortable.

I also did not feel the nubs much, so they didn’t add that extra sensation as intended. However, aside from the few disappointments, it is a great teaser toy, and possibly good for beginners. Cleaning is simple enough, just remember that it is not waterproof, nor can it be sterilized, so the best cleaning method would be to wipe down with a warm and damp cloth and some antibacterial soap or toy cleanser.

Thank you Babeland for letting me review the Thumbelina!

Update!

Hello dear readers. Sorry I have been a bad blogger and not updated in forever. I have been busy with school and trying to win over Will (who is now my boyfriend I am happy to say).

So, how did I finally win him over? A lot of inviting him over, cooking him dinner. One night as we sat together on my bed watching a movie he put his arm around me, and we cuddled the rest of the movie. That night when he left he gave me a kiss on the cheek as we hugged goodbye. I kissed him on his cheek, but then he left.

The next night was the same thing. A week later we were watching a movie and after the movie, we stayed cuddling, smiling into each others eyes. I couldn’t take it anymore, and decided to take a leap and kissed him on his forehead. As soon as I did that, his lips were on mine.

We kissed a lot, but he never let it go farther than that, because he left soon. The next day he met me at school and he waited for me to get out of class, then he took me to his place and he cooked me dinner. After dinner, we cuddled and kissed some more. That night when he was driving me home I asked him if he considered us more than friends, and he said yes.

A week later I got to meet his parents at his birthday dinner. They seem like really nice people.

I really feel like there could be something there with Will and I, though I know it is too soon to tell. I worry about some things about me that he doesn’t know, things like how I spent the past year before him, this blog, etc.

One difficult thing I find in this slowly growing relationship is the fact that we are on different schedules. He works graveyard and I work day shift. Hanging out sometimes seems difficult. He also has never had a girlfriend, making me a first for a lot of things for him. It makes me crazy paranoid when he never calls, and I am afraid to call him in case he is sleeping. I am afraid that Toby gave me some trust issues.

Sometimes, because of our different schedules, I wonder if it is really gonna work with us. However, I always push that thought away because I like him too much to not give him a chance and a little extra slack. Like I said, he is new to this, and needs a little training.   =P   So, any advice you could give me on making a new relationship like this work? Anything about different schedules, someone being new to everything, how did you make it work. I know that there is still a lot to be learned about each other, that will happen over time, but how did you, dear readers, make it work? I really like this guy.

I like that things are going slowly, but smoothly. Something I have always needed is a guy to take it slow with me. It may drive me nuts in the moment when I want to take things further, but can’t, but afterwards I am glad things are going slowly. Its…comforting.

Review: Tickled Pink Restraints

There is nothing hotter, in my opinion, than one partner having a little bit more control than the other. I have always had the fantasy of incorporating handcuffs into the bedroom. Thanks to Babeland, I got some Tickled Pink Restraints to review.

The Restraints are not your traditional furry handcuffs. They  come as two separate cuffs, a 36 inch long nylon strap. The cuffs are pink and so soft. I love the feel of them around my wrists. I showed them to several appreciative friends and they loved the feel as well.

At first, I was a little put off by having to figure out a secure way to tie the straps on the bed, yet also easy to untie them, but after a few advice on knots by friends, I gave them a try. Just simply make a double knot around the bars (or whatever they are being tied onto) and they are easily undone when untied. Another way to tie them would be to just tie the straps together, and wrapping them around whatever is available. The long straps give you the option for your partner to have as much slack (or as little) as you want.

Thank you so much Babeland. I love the Restraints and can’t wait to be able to use them with a partner. I am sure they will bring much excitement to the bedroom in the future.

Fantasy: In the Woods

Toby has this big goal to get me to go and do stuff outdoors with him. I always say no, as I just don’t trust him. Plus, I think we ended that (I hope). But, that does not mean I don’t have a fantasy or two of doing stuff in public, with the chance of being caught at any time. Here I will share one of those fantasies.

I am at school and I meet the best friend of a friend of a friend. He’s cute, and I flirt a little. We have a bit in common, and when it comes time for me to go to class, I have to climb over him to leave the lunch table in the corner.

I go to class to find out it was cancelled. I go back to the cafeteria, as I am now done for the day. He is still there, as I was only gone for a few minutes. I climb back over him and he kind of gives my ass a playful squeeze when no ones looking. I am not surprised, as I am actually kind of used to being groped by my friends (this is true believe it or not, hehe).

I set my laptop back up, thinking I am gonna get some more blog stuff written for once. As I set up, he asks if he could have my number and if I text. I tell him my number, thinking nothing of it.

A few minutes later I get a text from a number I don’t recognize. I look up and ask if that’s him. He says yes. I open it, and am shocked at what it says:

“We should go back into the woods and have some fun. I know the perfect spot.” I smile, and reply back via text, “Ooo, that’s naughty. Sounds fun, lets go.” I make up an excuse as to why I have to leave so soon, and text him that I have to run to the bathroom, but will meet him out front. He says ok. As I am walking away, he says he has to leave too.

When I come out of the bathroom, he is waiting outside. We walk side by side, my heart pounding. Once we are out of hearing distance from surrounding students and teachers, he asks me if I am nervous. I say, “very,” and ask if he is. He says yes. We get a little farther into the woods, and have a little bit of small talk. I swear, we sounded like a couple in a low budget porn dialogue; “So what’s your name? How old are you? Did you grow up around here?”

We walked a little farther, finally leaving the trail to go up onto the hill and behind the trees and bushes, out of sight. I had to say, I approved of the spot, though I was terrified of being caught.

“So how do you want to do this?” he asks, as he’s unzipping his pants and pulling out his monster cock. I get on my knees and put my left hand around the base while my tongue slowly licked around the head, getting it wet. Once its wet, I take it into my mouth and begin to suck while teasing with my tongue.

I take my left hand off his cock to let my mouth take in more and wrapped my arm around his leg, pulling him closer. I hear him quietly moaning, knowing that he would be louder if there wasn’t the chance of being heard. I looked up into his eyes as I suck him off to see him smiling.

I continue to suck while massaging his cock with my tongue. I would never keep the same rhythm , always changing the motions of my tongue, the pace of my head bobbing back and forth, cock in mouth. (It’s the first time I have enjoyed sucking cock in a long time, as Toby ruined it for me for a while).

I suck for a good fifteen minutes at least before I take my mouth off of his cock and begin to jack him off instead.

“Mmm, does sucking my dick make you wet?” he asks quietly.

“Oh, yes. Very much so.”

“Do you want me in you?”

“Yes, please.”

“Do you have a condom?”

“Of course,” I say as I reach into my purse and take out one of the condoms.

I take it out of the package and begin to put it on. I mumble about how this was the only time I hated having long finger nails. He hears me, and takes over, getting the rest of the condom on.

“So how is this gonna work?” I ask, looking at our very damp and dirty surroundings.

“Hold onto the fence and back up into me,” he says. I quickly undo my pants and pull them down and do as he suggests. Before I know it, I am holding onto the fence and his cock is filling my dripping wet pussy.

He wraps his arms around my waist, locking his hands together at my pelvis and begins slow deep thrusts. The thrusts quickly increase in speed. He slows down for a few seconds, trying to gain control. The control doesn’t last long and he quickly resumes the quick heavy thrusts.

“I’m sorry, I can’t hold back any longer after such a great blow job,” he says, as his body clenches and his thrusts get very slow and very deep as he finally reaches his climax.

We hide the evidence and put our pants back on. We are both panting and sweaty after a nice fuck in the woods. We walk back to the parking lot together, where I wait for the bus and he heads home. Until next week, where we may just repeat today’s actions.

Review: Crocodile Clamps

Because my nipples have never been that sensitive, I have loved the idea of nipple clamps. That is why I was very happy to get the chance to review the Crocodile Clamps from Babeland.

The clamps are designed to be adjustable. It took me a while to figure out how to adjust the pressure of the clamps, but eventually I figured out that you have to open the clamps and then screw in the screw that sets the tightness of the clamping.

The pressure of the clamps depends on how far the screw is in or out of the clamps. There is also a rubber tip at the end of the clamps, and when removed, the clamps definitely have more of a bite to them.

The clamps are held together by a metal chain that is very strongly linked. I think that is the only downfall about the clamps, because the chain is so heavy that it makes the clamps more likely to fall off. (That also depends on how tight or how loose you like your clamps to be).

Thank you so much Babeland for giving me the chance to review these clamps. I love them! They will definitely be of continued use in my future bedroom play.

Update on Guys in My Life

I’m sorry, I have been a bad blogger lately. I have just been so busy with school and trying to win over this guy I like. So, I don’t really need to explain the school part of my life, because that’s just plain boring in a sex blog (unless I am in a hot school girl outfit, which I don’t have just yet). But, I am sure you want to hear about the guy.

First, before I begin about the new guy in my life, let me update you on Brent. Basically, Brent was not interested in more than friends. I certainly was, but after spending a lot of time with him, I realized I would want different things than him from a relationship. We are still good friends, and still hang out on occasion.

Also, let me update on the Toby situation. Basically, we decided we like other people, but if nothing works out, we are only a text away. I learned to put all emotions aside with him, and for that I am grateful. He has really helped kill my attachment issues. However, I may have developed some slight trust issues and possibly a fear of committing, which is something I never thought would be possible. We hooked up one last time two weeks ago, and I plan on doing an entry later about it (it was that hot, I thought).

Ok, now that the updates are out of the way, lets move on to the new guy. I will call him Will on here. Will is another guy I met at work (yyeah, I know, meeting guys at work is a bad idea and I learned). Anyways, we started talking about video games, which got us playing WoW together, which led to us starting to hang out outside of work.

We started with the mall, then his place (playing WoW), then last week he came to my place for the first time and I cooked him dinner and made homemade chocolate chip cookies. He thought it was all delicious. Embarrassingly enough, I burnt the noodles and had to restart them. Everything else turned out awesome. However, I didn’t even get a hug, which I was expecting, though hoping for a kiss. Oh well.

Today we hang out again. We met at the mall, then went to his house and played on the computers a bit, then my house and did more computer stuff, watched a movie, and played board games. It was awesome, classic, and clean fun. Still, when he left, I didn’t get a hug again! Did he get some sudden shyness bug? He always hugged me before we parted before I cooked him dinner.

So, at first I was really worried about how he might feel about some things about me (i.e. the blog, my piercings, etc.). However, I think he may actually be into some of those things, if not okay with them. I think this because I have observed him to have as much of a pervy mind as I, which is pretty big. A lot of the time we spend hanging out, we spend laughing at each other’s innuendos, or waiting for the other to realize what they just said and how it was dirty. We laugh a lot.

I know that if things are meant to happen, they will happen on their own, but I just wish there was a way to speed things up, or find out how he feels about me. I really like this guy, and I think we could have something good. Our personalities fit so well together. Any ideas on how to get things started without putting on any too major of a move or making myself seem obvious or desperate? I would love to hear your thoughts on this.

A New Goal

Last week, I decided to set a goal for myself. I made a goal to go without using a vibrator for the whole month of October. The most I have went without one is two weeks. The rules I set for myself was that I can do anything that does not involve a vibrator (i.e. sex, using my hands, someone else’s hands, etc). The point of this goal is to try to teach myself to orgasm without a vibrator.

I went to bed at midnight Wednesday morning (thinking it was the first, so I did not get out the vibe, as much as temptation called. I woke up to find that it was only the 30^th, the last day of the month. I made a plan to go to bed before midnight and having one last go round with the vibrator before I attempted to break my dirty habit.

Several times I came close to coming, but I would not let myself cross that finish line. I prolonged my masturbating, as I knew it would probably be my last enjoyable session for a month. Too soon, it was getting close to midnight, so I decided to finally let my orgasm come.

I remembered the last time I had sex, Toby tried to put his hand on my throat. I freaked out and made him stop, as I did not trust him. He said I really should try it sometime. I was like “Yeah, whatever.” I thought about it, and as soon as the orgasm began to rise, I put my free hand over my throat and applied the slightest bit or pressure.

What was going to be a semi strong orgasm instantly turned into a super strong orgasm. I had to remind myself to stay quiet, as I wanted to scream and moan in pleasure as my body shook with orgasm after orgasm.

I went to bed happier and more content than I have in a long time. I can’t wait for the month to be over (if I can last that long) so I can try it again.

Review: Flower Balm

Sensation heightening gels/creams have never really done much for me, but I always keep an open mind, ready and willing to try something new. That is why I took the chance to review the Flower Balm when Babeland offered.

After a few days of waiting, I finally got a package from Babeland. The balm tin comes in a little cardboard box. I was pleased to find that the tin was fairly easy to open, unlike many other balm tins I have seen.

At first whiff, the scent of the Flower Balm seemed slightly pleasant. However, after several more sniffs, the smell almost seemed kind of gross. The scent/flavor of the balm is mandarin mint.

Nonetheless, I decided to give the balm a try anyways, ignoring the smell. I dipped my finger into the balm and collected a generous amount on my finger. I started by rubbing some of the balm on my nipples. I definitely felt them being rubbed, but no balm.

Next, I rubbed the rest of the balm onto my clit. I rubbed for a few seconds, but felt nothing. After about 30 seconds, though, my nipples began to feel cold. Just a few short seconds after, my clit began to feel cold as well. It felt like someone was blowing cold air onto both my clit and nipples.

Unfortunately, that was the only thing I felt from the balm. It didn’t increase sensation in neither my clit nor my nipples. The cool sensation felt nice, but not nice to help me finish the job faster.

The balm was easy to wash off, just use warm water and soap. I think that if I was more sensitive in the nipples and clit, I may have a different opinion about the balm. The truth is though, the balm really didn’t do the trick. However, that does not mean I will stop using it. It will definitely help spice things up later in the bedroom once I find a partner to play with.

Review: Better Than Chocolate

I have a huge sweet tooth, chocolate being my favorite sweet. That being said, you can imagine my excitement when Babeland gave me the chance to try something that is supposed to be better than chocolate.

Better Than Chocolate is a designer vibrator from Nomi Tang. It comes in a beautifully decorated box that has velvet lining inside. Inside the box is the toy itself, a small instructions booklet, and a velvet drawstring bag.

The toy is very uniquely shaped, meant to fit perfectly against the vulva and clit area. The material is made from elastomer, which means it is not completely sterilizable, but not as porous as other materials (i.e. jelly).

The controls took a while to get used to, and I still am having difficulties with them, though it is getting easier to use. There is a push power button at the top and a slide touch control right below. Slide the control up for more power and down to decrease speed of vibration. The control is not marked, but there is a temporary sticker on top with a (+) and a (-) on each end.

There are different vibration patterns as well. To get to them, simply press down on the NT logo side of the touch sensor for two seconds. Repeat to cycle through each vibration pattern until finally returning back to the steady vibration mode. To lock onto one favorite setting, hold down the opposite side of the touch sensor for two seconds.

Better Than Chocolate is waterproof up until one meter. That means the toy can be immersed in up to one meter of water. However, when the touch sensor gets wet, it automatically locks into the setting it is currently on. To unlock it, dry off the sensor.

Better Than Chocolate takes 2 AAA batteries. They are fairly easy to insert. There is a twist cap at one corner of the toy and the battery compartment is marked so it is easy to tell which battery goes where.

In all honesty, Better Than Chocolate wasn’t better than chocolate for me. I felt like the vibrations weren’t strong enough for my taste. However, the toy makes an awesome massager for more than just naughty things. It fits wonderfully on places like the shoulders and neck.

Thank you Babeland for letting me try out the Better Than Chocolate.

One Afternoon Stand

About a week before my birthday, Forbidden Fruit informed me that his best friend (who we will call Eric) was coming into town for a few days and his birthday present to me was that Eric and I are able to fool around. He said Eric was very into it, and had never done anything before, not even kiss. I must admit, I was intrigued. I told him I would think about it.

Timing never seemed to be right the whole time that Eric was in town, but finally on his last day here, Forbidden Fruit called to see if I was home and that my mom was gone. She was, so he said they would be over soon. Within that hour, there was a knock on my door and I let the two guys in.

It started out very awkward, as both Eric and I were very shy. I didn’t know what he wanted, what he was okay with, etc. Forbidden Fruit helped by pushing the right buttons on me, knowing how to get me worked up. He then had us each take turns removing an article of clothing.

The first thing to go was the shoes and socks, next was our shirts. Eric seemed intrigued by my pierced nipples. There was a lot of nervous giggling, but finally Forbidden Fruit was able to go sit in the corner (the condition of us hooking up was that he got to watch, out of curiosity), and Eric’s and my hormones finally kicked in.

It started with Eric caressing my tits, squeezing and twisting my nipples (so much better with the piercings). Next he bent his head down and began to suck on my right tit, flicking the piercing with his tongue. I let out a small moan, as I had never felt sensation like that before the piercings. For the first time ever my nipple began to feel over stimulated. He soon switched over to the other nipple and began to work on it.

By this time we were both incredibly worked up. However, there was one small detail I failed to mention to them at the beginning of this. Thanks to Mother Nature, I had some female issues that prevented me to do some things that I wanted to do, or let be done. I was not happy about this, making me hesitant to do much more.

I knew I had to say something, so I used the excuse of not being ready to “go all the way,” but was willing to go down on Eric. He seemed eager enough, and it didn’t take long for him to take off his pants and me get a hold of his cock. I made it nice and hard by massaging it.

I bent my head down and went to work. I licked and teased the tip of his cock with tongue, flicking and licking, swirling my tongue around so that my mouth was finally filled with cock.

Bobbing my head up and down on his hard cock, I would try to remember to stimulate his balls and nipples every so often. I continued to suck, and to switch it up a bit, I would remove my mouth and lightly blow on him. He moaned. I bent my head a little further and sucked on each ball, one at a time.

To tease him a little bit, I stopped sucking and starting kissing and biting my way up his chest, paying specific attention to his nipples. He moaned in pleasure. I looked up and asked if he was ok with actual kissing. He said it sounded good.

I positioned myself so that my face was inches from his and went for it. It started as a light peck, but then we pecked some more, each kiss getting a little bit longer. After a few kisses we began full on making out, sucking on each other’s lips and tongues. That was the best kiss I ever had.

After a while of kissing, I went back to sucking his cock.

Soon after though, we realized the time. He didn’t have time to finish and my mom was due home any minute. We stopped, got dressed, and went with Forbidden Fruit to get coffee and lunch.