100 Things About Me

Here is a list of random things about me. I tried to keep it somehwat organized, but that lost itself early into the compiling.

01 – I have blond hair

02 – I dyed my hair bright red in high school

03 – Because my hair is so light, it turned pink

04 – I have gray/green eyes

05 – I have had glasses since I was 3 or 4

06 – I had eye surgery when I was 5

07 – I am overweight and trying to fix it

08 – I have 2 half sisters through my mom

09 – I have a half brother through my dad

10 – Even with these 3 half siblings, I grew up as an only child

11 – I grew up in a small town in northern California

12 – I lived in Kansas my first 2 years of high school

13 – My childhood home has only a generator for electricity

14 – I got my first kiss at 15

15 – My first boyfriend, at 15, dumped me after 5 days

16 – I had an online boyfriend during my senior year of high school

17 – I didn’t have my second real life boyfriend until college at

18 18 – Ex #3 was creepy and I dumped him after 3 months

19 – My favorite food is pasta of any kind

20 – I love to cook (especially for others)

21 – I love to read

22 – I love to watch comedy

23 – My favorite comedies are the older Adam Sandlers (Happy Gilmore, Big Daddy, Billy Madison)

24 – All throughout elementary school and junior high I was an outcast

25 – Living in Kansas and having a fresh start made me less of an outcast

26 – I hate carrots 27 – I hate watermelon (always have)

28 – I especially can’t stand the taste and smell of artificial watermelon

29 – I hate meatloaf (the food)

30 – I love garlic

31- I love seafood

32 – I used to love fish until i got really burnt out on it

33 – My favorite color is red

34 – I have pierced nipples (for the second time)

35 – I dislike melons in general

36 – My favorite movie of all time is “A Walk to Remember”

37 – I seem to have trouble keeping friends (whether something happens or we just grow apart)

38 – I used to consider a tongue piercing

39 – I would never consider a clit piercing

40 – I liked the Twilight book series

41 – I enjoy the TrueBlood series

42 – I loved the Harry Potter Books

43 – I don’t really have one favorite author. They vary on the genre I am into at the time

44 – My favorite color is red

45 – I love cuddling

46 – I love kissing

47 – I don’t care for sloppy tongue jammed down through kissing

48 – When it comes to music, I listen to whatever suits my mood

49 – I prefer country

50 – I dislike classical, jazz, and techno

51 – I had a journal called “My Adventures in La-La Land”

52 – I used to write poetry in high school

53 – I was depressed in high school

54 – Several years ago I found out I had repressed memories of my childhood

55 – I believe I have daddy issues

56 – I have abandonment issues

57 – I get attached easily

58 – I am very selfish when it comes to my friends and boyfriends

59 – I lost my virginity at 20 (I felt like I was tricked into it)

60 – I have had 5 total boyfriends in my life (all over a year apart)

61 – I prefer the graveyard shift. It goes by faster for me

62 – I am only close to 2 of my exes (though my latest one is hanging by a thread as my friend)

63 – I love the sound of diesel pick-ups

64 – I cannot get off without a vibrator

65 – I used to have a sex toy addiction that almost put me in debt

66 – I popped my own cherry with a dildo

67 – My first orgasm was at 17

68 – My first orgasm without a vibrator was through g-spot orgasm

69 – I love video games

70 – My favorite MMO is the WoW (World of Warcraft)

71- I love the God of War Series

72 – I want to get a PS3 just so that I can play God of War 3

73 – I loved the orginal Spyro (PS1) games

74 – Hate the new Spyro (PS2) games

75 – My favorite channel used to be LMN (Lifetime Movie Network)

76 – Sometimes I wish I could undo my first time

77 – I wanted my first time to be on my wedding night, to be honest

78 – Despite all that, I don’t regret the things I have done

79 – Everyhting I have done (good/bad, sexual or not) has been a learnign experience

80 – I got my driviers license at 21

81 – I am fascinated with the show “The Secret Life of the American Teenager”

82 – I can relate to a lot of the stuff on that show

83 – I blame myself for things going as far as they did with Toby

84 – I lost a lot of my sex drive after my lastest break up

85 – D is helping bring that back

86 – I do feel like I have calmed down a lot since my last boyfriend, however

87 – I used to have long hair all my life

88 – I got it cut the shortest its ever been this last July

89 – I am still deciding on whether or not I want to grow it out again

90 – I do passion parties to earn extra money

91 – My dream job is to be a sex therapist

92 – I feel like Passion Parties is the first step in the right direction

93 – I have moved 6 times in my life, working on the 7th

94 – I learned that I hate living alone after Will moved out

95 – I like the idea of a room mate, but like the privacy of living alone

96 – I hate sitting on a warm chair

97 – I especially hate a warm toilet seat

98 – I have to have a shower before I can fall asleep

99 – At some point in my life I think I would like to try having a girlfriend

100 – However, if a man comes along first, that is ok by me.

Firsts

1. First French kiss?
I was 15, my first boyfriend and I were at the movies, seeing “School of Rock.”

2. First boyfriend / girlfriend?
I was 15 when I got my first boyfriend. We met through a mutual friend who set us up to go to the Homecoming dance together

3. First type.
I am not sure what my first type really was. I was so desperate to get a boyfriend, that it didn’t really matter what he was like. Sad, I know.

4. First time you had sex.
Not too long ago actually. It was this last July, and a really messed up first time. I told him he could fuck me anal and he ended doing it vaginally. Curiosity got the best of me, which prevented me from saying no.

5. First celebrity crush.
I had a thing for Leonardo DiCaprio for the longest time.

6. First sexual fantasy.
My first sexual fantasy was when I was with my online boyfriend at the time, during senior year. It was me picturing us if and when we ever met. Maybe I will post it sometime. My writing has changed so much since then.

7. First person you fell in love with.
I can’t say I have ever really been in love. I have certainly been in lust. My first true crush though was in 3rd grade.

8. First proper sex toy.
My mom’s friend bought me a vibrating dildo the night of my senior prom. I didn’t learn how to really use it until two weeks after.

9. First porn video.
I saw my first porn when I went to visit my brother. After he left one night to go back to base, his girlfriend and I popped a movie in and she explained everything as we watched, telling me how to tell apart the fake from the real.

10. First sexy lingerie item/sexy briefs owned.
It would have to be my French maid teddy.

11. First time giving oral.
I gave my first oral to my first real boyfriend during my first year of college. I was 18.

12. First time getting oral.
The first time I got oral was with my latest boyfriend, spring 2008.

13. First orgasm given by someone else.
Sadly, that hasn’t happened yet.

14. First one night stand.
With Forbidden Fruit’s best friend the weekend of my birthday. It was amazing

15. First dirty book/dirty mag read.
I found a playboy in my parents’ bedroom when I was about 13.

Lists

Ever since high school, I have loved to make lists. I think my favorite back then were pros and cons lists, a way to organize my thoughts, a way to try to narrow down my choice. I also love to keep track of my firsts. My first kiss, my first boyfriend, my first crush, etc. I like the organization of lists.

I recently read about a book on The Butterfly Temptress that you fill in the lists. These each page has the name of the new list at the top, meant for the reader to fill out the list. Some of these lists include “list the people you have kissed,” “kiss the people you want to kiss,” “list your lamest fights with lovers,” “list the things you are good at in relationships,” and many more.

The book is called Love Listography (Your love life in lists) by Lisa Nola. I looked the book up on Amazon, and decided I needed a copy. I think this book will help me keep those little details remembered, because I love to remember the little details that make me smile, or even shake my head with a smirk on my.

I am taking The Butterfly Temptress’s idea, and when I run out of ideas on posts, I will post some of the lists that I have made. Ironically, before I even knew this book existed, I made my own little list of some things, mainly just naming who I did what with, which, contain very short lists.

The first list page in the book requests that I list the people I have kissed. They go as follows:

Ex #1
The Guy in the Basement
Ex #3
Ex #4
M
Anna
Toby

The next page it asks to list the people you would like to kiss:

Forbidden Fruit
Mari
James (just to see what he’s like, I mean, I did blow him, I deserve a kiss)
Ex #2 (since we only online dated, living on opposite sides of the country)
Brent
Toby (I know, it’s not gonna happen, but I wouldn’t mind doing it again, just because it got me so hot).

Interviewed by Lalana

Here are the rules if you want to participate in 5 Questions. Send me an email or comment saying: “Interview Me” to naughty.tashamber@gmail.com. I will respond by emailing you five questions. I get to pick the questions. You can then answer the questions on your blog. You should also post these rules along with an offer to interview anyone else who emails you wanting to be interviewed. Anyone who asks to be interviewed should be sent 5 questions to answer on their blog. It would be nice if the questions were individualized for each blogger.

1.    You have an extensive toy collection.  If you had to get rid of every toy except one, which would you pick to keep, and why?

Only one toy? Dang, that’s a hard one. I would have to choose my vibrating bullet, since bullets have never failed to get me off. I use a bullet every time I masturbate, with or without something for penetration (just depends on my mood).

2.    There’s so many labels to choose from sexually – straight, bi, lesbian, submissive, dominant, switch, etc.  Label yourself and explain

Honestly, I am still trying to figure that one out myself. It was a year ago last fall when I first started to realize that I was attracted to girls, as well as guys. I am just now starting to experiment with that. I know that I have a very submissive side, and I think that is due to the fact that I grew up so sheltered, and always let people take the lead for me so that I could follow. However, I also have huge fantasies of being the dominant one in a relationship. So for now, we can loosely say that I am a bi switch.

3.    What made you decide that you were ready to start posting pics on your blog?

It took a lot of courage to decide to post pictures on my blog. I had always been self conscious before, and I thought that maybe posting them, sharing them with the world would help overcome that modesty I grew up with.

4.    You’re the “President” for the day, and have the ability to put in place TWO laws that can’t be reversed.  What would they be?

If I had the chance to be president for a day, I would make gay marriage legal, and make proper sex education a requirement for each school grade (appropriate to age level of course. Start with how the body develops, and as students get old enough, they would learn the proper ways to protect themselves from pregnancy or STI’s.

5.    Describe your dream man (or woman).  Which qualities are you NOT willing to compromise on in a life partner?

Someone that I can be myself around, where  don’t have to hide anything about me. Someone who can accept my willingness to learn and explore new things, in the bedroom especially. I could not call someone my life partner if I could not trust them with my true self, dreams, and fantasies.